Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Why does everyone judge me by my weight?

I am:
-15 years old
-Extremely athletic
-Muscular
-Constantly eating (I'm always hungry)
Here's the problem: I'm 5'7" and only weigh 110 pounds, so when first seeing or meeting me people automatically assume I have an eating disorder.
Why does everyone hae to be so freaking judgemental?
Answer:
Because that's how people work. They have to find something to judge you on. I have a friend who is about your height and weighs about the same as you, and also eats a ton. She eats more than anyone, but stays so skinny, and she also doesn't do any sports which make people bug her even more. People don't believe her when she says "I don't have an eating disorder, I don't go home and puke after eating a ton". They still call her anorexic. Whether it's out of jealousy, or pure obnoxiousness, they still do it. Humans in general are selfish and only think about themselves. They're judgemental and hateful. It's how some people work, and it's wrong.
Why do you have an eating disorder?
Human nature. honestly If you know you don't have a problem I would not be self consious of what others are saying they are most likely insecure about themselves and therfore want to have something to say about you. people will always judge others based on looks no matter what they look like
cuz ppl dont know the real u
society these days. sheesh
Because you ARE underweight, and none of that makes it better. If you're muscular, you should weigh more.
People can't help it, it's an unfortunate flaw of human nature. Everyone has to find a flaw in someone else or see something in someone else...

People do the same for me but I'm vice versa - I'm 5'7" (last I checked about 6 months ago) and I'm like, 170ish pounds.
Well i am the same hight as you and weigh 130 pounds. I am actually very low on the bmi scale. I have to try very hard to maintain my weight. People judge you because there is a very slim chance that some is just really skinny casue they are. That's the way the world is and there is nothing we can really do to fix it. So maybe you should try to gain weight to get to 120 and people will stop judging you. Though what really matters what you think about yourself and don't ever forget that.
because only u let them judge you, if you dress and act like u have a eating disorder...den u pulled them into letting them say that. When your friends or sumone says u look like ur anirexit or however u spell it. you should be like hell na i think ur and make jokes so they kno u are really not. people are judgemental because its life. once u think sumone is judgemental u have to look at yourself .and think you are prolly judgemental also in some certain way
Well, you don 't have an eating disorder. It 's just that like since you do sports , when you eat, your food gets digested faster %26%26 it turns into energy. That 's normal.
People have been subconsciously taught to judge on sight. 5'7 and 110lbs is not common in a child your age. What is common is a high metabolism and you have to feed your body if you are burning nutrients like that. have you had a physical lately? You should see the doctor annually for a complete physical. Also ask your parents what their body type was when they were your age. Also if you are a long distance runner then you will be slim anyway. Make sure you take the initiative to not judge on site, use this as a life lesson. People are superficial you know that if you watch T.V. or read Magazines so take this situation and use it for your good. They may be judging you on site now, but what about when you fill in? Then they will clamor to be your friend because of how you look so always remember that and make sure you don't do the same whether the person is large or small...

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